The Boy has proposed an interesting little idea to me and I'm not sure what I think. I'm curious what you ladies think about this funny little idea. TB thinks we should refrain from...you know...until the night of the wedding (25 days and counting.) According to him, we've been together for so long that by doing this it will be kind of like doing it for the first time all over again....except without the awkwardness of the first time.
I find this interesting because TB ALWAYS wants it. I mean if I would allow it, we would do it 4 times a day. In fact, we used to do it almost that much for the first few years. Obviously, life gets in the way and now we are down to 3-4 times a week....which I happen to think is quite normal. Most of the time he is the one who is initiating. It wasn't always that way, but it has been in recent years. It's not because I'm not attracted to him, because obviously I am. I think it's moreso just because I don't think about it all that often. When I do, I sure do initiate though. My doctor mentioned that women my age that have been on the pill a long time usually suffer from a low libido. I used to be the libido queen and I think that it makes TB question what he is doing wrong when in reality he is perfect. We had talked about this before and I explained it all to him like I did just now, but I'm sure he thinks I'm making it up. In truth, I probably would if I were in his shoes. Obviously, it's not like we are lacking in that department, but I guess the change in frequency unnerves the poor guy.
Anyway, I suspect that he really just wants me to want it on our wedding night. Personally, I don't think he's going to make it, but we will see. I wonder if I'll crack before then! Just the thought of not being able to is making me think about it far more than I normally do. Is he pulling some reverse psychology on me!?
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I think you should do it. Why not? See if you can hold out. Worst case scenario, you don't hold out but you will have great sex anyway. Right?
But don't kid yourself, you will not be having sex the night of your wedding. Maybe the next morning but that night, hopefully you will be tipsy and exhausted!
I know a lot of people that hold out before their wedding... me included. We didn't bump uglies for a month before our wedding night... which didn't actually happen until the next morning because we were so freakin' exhausted. But it made it so much more intense... like doing it all over for the first time, or at least the first few months of our relationship!
I think it's totally worth waiting! :)
Why not! My fiance and I probably will give it a try (not yet...I'll wait until closer to our wedding to start! lol)
I should make for a pretty intense first time whenever you do it. Whether you hold out until your wedding or not!
What are the limitations of this, by the way? I knew a couple that didn't do anything more than HUG for the 2 months leading up to their wedding. No kisses or anything.
jatorade...let's not give him any more ideas! lol. I may shrivel up and die if we remove all physical contact.
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