Okay so after I was rudely put in my place by The Boy, I thought about it so much my head almost exploded. I sent him a text a few hours later to see what they were doing. Hiking. Alone. Whatever! I asked where her man was and received no response. A few more hours go by and he still hasn't called me back. Now I am seething. I called him " Hi. This will only take a minute, but I need to get it off my chest before I let you get back to your friend. We are a couple. When one of us is feeling shitty, it's the job of the other one to listen and be supportive. Instead you made me feel second rate to this chick. I don't care if the mother f-ing Pope was outside to pick me up, I would have made the time for you. I am very hurt by what you did to me." He says that he thought I had told my story and was finished. I call bullshit. I mean seriously, why could he have not made her wait a few. Or why could he have not taken his MOBILE PHONE with him in the car and just said "hey GIRL, my girlfriend is having a bad day at work so I need a second on the phone." I mean if you were her, wouldn't you understand? I know I would. An hour or so after we hang up, he sends me a text apologizing. I respond that hopefully he can find some time so we can talk. He says "well I'm on my way to dinner with her now." SERIOUSLY!? I had to say something. I proceeded to express my feelings of discomfort over the amount of time these two were spending together alone. He says no to worry he'll call soon.
2 God Damned hours later I still haven't heard from him!!!!!!!! I sent a text (I know I shouldn't have but I've never been good at not calling) that says " Wow you have really showed me my place in line tonight. Thanks a lot." 4 seconds later my phone is ringing. I refused to answer it. He called like 8 times in a row. eventually it became annoying so I answered. He wants to know why I'm not answering!? What are you dumb!? Then I find out that they are still out to dinner and that now some of his friends from the work thing are there and they are all hanging out together! Am I crazy because this just infuriated me? I ripped him a new one. He says I have nothing to worry about. He also says he understands that this makes me uncomfortable and a little insecure but that there is nothing taking place that wouldn't be if I were there too. Now to me this sounds a little crazy. You mean to tell me that you totally get how I feel, but you are going to continue to do it anyway. How is that for a slap in the face? My favorite part of the whole conversation was when he told me that he thinks I'm not really upset but pretending to be in order to "work an angle." Oooookay dick head! That's when I told him to take his psycho babble nonsense and stick it up his ass. Then I hung up :-) All in all a great night, wouldn't you say??
Would you believe he is texting me this morning like nothing ever happened?
Am I over reacting? Honest opinions please.
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I would've done the exact same thing, and probably not ignore the text he sent like nothing happened.
But I'm horrible at not calling too.
you totally have the arguement right - he sees that you are upset by something he is doing with someone you feel like you can't trust and who is being skanky, YET he is still doing it. Totally disregarding your feelings.
I'll take the title as a shout out to me. :)
I suck at not calling also, but since he is YOURS those "stalkerish" rules do not apply.
You have every right to be pissed. You explained to him your feelings and he is disregarding them. Unacceptable. The worst part of it is that he is texting you like nothing is wrong. I hate that most of all because it is like him saying that you were overreacting and you should be over it by now.
When he gets back, you need to make him pay.
I agree. That is messed up. Boys are dumb. Make him pay.
I totally agree with everyone....but I also know that boys seem to not think things thoroughly...yea not so bright..........He's definitely going to feel like a dumb ass when he realizes!
You have every right to be angry. You do.
But I think you are bordering on a trust issue and that is never a good place to be.
I think that you need to ask yourself why you are really flipping out.
Yes, this girl is a douche.
Yes, he is far away and you do not have control over the situation.
But do you really not trust him? Enough to get into a fight with him?
You have every right to be angry and upset but I amlso think that fighting on the phone while he is with her is NOT the best time to do it.
When he comes home, I think you guys have a LOT to talk about. And not just this either.....
I will be in the city next week, probably weds. Drinks?
That's exactly what I would do. Not saying it's right or wrong, just what I would do.
You're completely justified in every way that you feel though. He's being completely ignorant, he knows that she harbors feelings for him but he's just not caring and instead soaking in all the attention that he's probably getting from her and when you bring it up he's getting defensive because he wants to say I'm not doing anything wrong we're just friends.
I dunno just my thought.
I'm totally like you with the inability to not call or text and just wait.
That being said, you definitely have a right to be upset with him and even though nothing is happening between him and the chick, how would he feel if you did the same thing?
Boys can be dumb and he definitely should be trying to make you feel better...
Also, do you know if her "boyfriend" is real?
i'm sorry, I'm vindictive. I'd give him back a piece of his own medicine.
I'd go out for a weekend. With a "friend" who happened to be a guy. And not call really.and be elusive. and just let him know how it would feel.
that's just me. trust me. Matt learned about that shit being a bad thing LONG ago, cause I would just give it back to him.
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